"Betsy Parrish was a singing teacher at Yale who who said everyone can sing, and in the class we would have all these boys who would say -' I'm not gonna... I'm not gonna, I'm not going to do that, I'm not gonna get up, I don't have to do that" and she said - "Yes you will you will learn to sing and you will sing in front of us, and you'll make everybody cry", - and by the end of the of the class she got that or out of them"